Could You Be a Lifesharer? Discover the Role That Changes Lives
Until recently, I didn’t know much about Lifesharing. Like many people, I had no idea what this program was or how it worked. But as I’ve learned more, I’ve come to realize just how unique and meaningful it can be. What really stands out to me is how much is achieved in Lifesharing simply by “living”. By going about your everyday life—running errands, sharing meals, or enjoying hobbies—you’re providing an example of inclusion, independence, and connection. The thought of empowering someone we support, helping them thrive in a home environment with everyday people, feels not only rewarding but deeply impactful.
Imagine a role where you’re not just a roommate but also a mentor, advocate, and friend—what we like to call a “Super Roommate.” That’s the life of a Lifeshare Provider. By welcoming an individual with intellectual or developmental disabilities (IDD) into your home, moving into their home, or finding a suitable home together, you’re not just transforming their life—you’re enriching your own.
What is Lifesharing?
Lifesharing is a unique opportunity for individuals or families to open their hearts and homes to someone with IDD—or, alternatively, to move into the individual’s home to provide support. It’s more than just a living arrangement; it’s about building a meaningful relationship where both people grow, learn, and thrive together.
As a Lifesharer, you become a vital part of someone’s journey toward independence, inclusion, and a fulfilling life. This could mean helping with daily routines, exploring shared hobbies, or simply being a consistent, caring presence. But the beauty of Lifesharing is that so much happens naturally. The simple act of living together—sharing your routine, navigating challenges, and celebrating successes—creates a powerful and lasting impact.
A Personal Touch to Lifesharing
When I spoke with Alex Nocella, our Vice President of Programs, I was struck by how much heart goes into making Lifesharing work.
“Our Lifesharing program has been supporting individuals for 22 years,” Alex shared. “What sets us apart is our personalized approach. Each arrangement is unique, tailored to the needs and preferences of both the individual and the Lifesharer. We prioritize matching people based on shared values, interests, and goals.”
Alex shared a few stories that really helped me understand some of the diverse situations where Lifesharing works:
A couple who had just become empty nesters welcomed a young man full of energy and curiosity into their home. Together, they’ve built a life filled with church connections, vacations, and a close-knit group of friends that enriches all their lives.
A young mother created a multigenerational home by bringing in an individual with IDD. Family celebrations, holidays, and everyday life have taken on new meaning for everyone involved.
A single man in his 30s moved into the home of a young man with IDD. Together, they share a love of art, music, and family time, creating a space where independence and connection thrive.
“Every story is different,” Alex added, “but the common thread is always mutual growth, understanding, and connection.”
Why Consider Lifesharing?
At first, the idea of becoming a Lifesharer might seem a little overwhelming—but the rewards go far beyond financial compensation. Lifesharers often describe the experience as life-changing for both themselves and the individuals they support.
Here’s what you could gain:
Deep Connections: Form a bond that feels more like family than work.
Life Lessons: Learn patience, empathy, and resilience in a way that changes your perspective.
Personal Growth: Discover strengths you didn’t know you had.
Flexibility: Whether you open your home or move into theirs, there’s an arrangement that works for you.
A Day in the Life
Every day as a Lifesharer is unique, but here’s an example of what it might look like:
Morning Routine: Sharing breakfast, planning the day, or practicing life skills.
Community Engagement: Running errands, joining local events, or participating in group activities.
Skill Building: Working on cooking, budgeting, or other household tasks.
Relaxation: Watching movies, gardening, or playing board games together.
Addressing Your Concerns
I know what you might be thinking: “Could I really do this?” The answer is yes! Training and ongoing support are provided, and you’ll have guidance every step of the way.
Here are a few common questions:
What if I have no experience? No problem—comprehensive training and resources are part of the program.
Will I still have time for myself? Absolutely! Setting boundaries and maintaining balance are key, and we’ll help you establish both.
What about compensation? Lifesharers receive financial support and resources to help make this possible.
How to Get Started
Taking the first step toward Lifesharing is simple:
Learn More: Visit our website to explore the role in greater detail.
Connect with Us: Schedule a meeting or attend an info session to ask questions.
Apply: Complete a straightforward application with our team’s guidance.
Get Matched: Receive training and be paired with someone whose needs align with your strengths and interests.
Conclusion
What I learned is Lifesharing is as unique as the individuals and families who make it possible. Whether you’re single, married, or part of a family, Lifesharing is about creating a nurturing environment where someone can truly feel at home. It’s not about being a perfect caregiver but about welcoming someone into your daily life and sharing experiences, challenges, and joys together. Each Lifesharing arrangement reflects the diversity of the people involved, showing that a shared life can enrich everyone in ways that are both simple and profound.
